This is going to be a cheesy and deep post but I'm a cheesy person and I like talking deep, therefore I'm going to embrace my cheesiness and deep talks.
Being a teen is hard. There's no doubt about that: the growing, the emotions, the "developing", the spots, the friendships, the pressure of making yourself presentable and attractive and overall questioning why our presence on earth exist.
Some days I'm as happy as can be, some days I sit snuggled in bed feeling sorry for myself whilst watching YouTubers and snapchat of my friends partying and having fun, in the meanwhile I'm a full on hermit. I don't have a huge amounts of friends and the thought of me socialising with actual human beings makes me laugh. Some days I'm really down and upset. I actually question what's my purpose in life and why I keep feeling the way I do. The moral of all these emotions is that it's perfectly fine to acknowledge these roller coaster of feelings, that's what life is all about. To laugh, to learn, to cry, to feel, to experience, to enjoy and to love.
My top 10 (stupid and cheesy) ways to enjoy being a teen
1.Laugh,have fun, spend time with your closest friends and family (but please don't do anything stupid or pretend to be drunk-like most girls in my year do.)
2.EMBRACE YOUR WEIRDNESS,YOUR ORGINALITY,YOUR EMOTION,EXPRESS YOURSELF
If you're scared of doing these then you're going to be in scared and trapped bubble. I'm currently in a process of coming out of my bubble and it proves to be tricky. However, if people aren't accepting your true self, are you ever going to be happy knowing that people don't know your own personal traits and characteristics?
3.Dance like nobody is watching
It may sound silly but dancing like nobody is watching makes me feel stupid, silly, weird and it does give me an upliftment. Do that slut drop in front of your mirror then laugh when you fall over or dance to Drakes 'One Dance' or my personal favourite, try and learn Beyoncé's 'Single Ladies' dance.
4.Embrace your features-both inside(number two) and outside.
Put that foundation on. Blend them Naked 2 eyeshadows.
Make
yourself
look
BOMB
Take about 100 selfies
pose for that Dog filter-that shit makes you look airbrushed asf.
Or if you're not about the make up and vain life then stand in front of the mirror and pick our your best features. If you don't think you've got good features on the outside (which I'm sure you have) then pick out your best features from inside and embrace them.
5.Don't talk to boys without any intention of just being friends
I hate to break this to you some boys are dickheads and some aren't.If they're not a dickhead then they're a geek and if theyre not both of them,then they're an tumblr fanatic or just listens to hardcore music or just really skanky.
Don't worry about having a boyfriend,they're too much drama and too much to worry if they're liking other girls photos.You're a teenager.The right one will be out there somewhere and will come when you're much older.
6.PLEASE BE POSTITIVE ABOUT EVERYTHING,IT MAKES LIFE SO MUCH EASIER
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE AND WATCH YOUTUBERS THAT PREACH POSITIVITY,AMEN.
I could ramble on forever but it's nine o'clock at night and I still have to watch my daily intake on youtube and I'm excited because Dan's uploaded an internet support group 8,BYE!
